Day 3 ... Changing Me

Thursday, September 26, 2013

“The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on, or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.”
― Bob Moawad

I have heard people say so many times " I feel like I am walking on eggshells around a certain person" I have said it myself and I've had it said to me but I think social media has given us such bad people skills ... Why should we worry about hurting peoples feelings if we are being nice and sincere ...We are set to auto ....We type lol or lmao when we are not really laughing ....we can set our status in the morning to follow us around every second... You get  comments from people and most of them don't even know what your greatest moment was or what brand of steeped tea cheers you up and most people don't even give a damn ...... They put little sad faces there if your feeling down and like if your feeling good .... I do it myself everyday I write my status and wait to see who even cares ........ I wish life was simple again when you knew someone had your back but now the only thing close to knowing that is 2 little stick men standing together , one missing the mark that represents his back and the other holding it say hey pal I got your back ...Its so sad

Its like we are all caught up in a pissin game to see who is feeling the worst or best and who can find the one comment the rest of them will love

Well what about just caring ....

My life has always been an open book to anyone who would want to read it ... I love blogging and my Facebook statues has reflected what mood and who I want to pay for it ..... my fingers are always acting before my brain has done thinking and that is something I am trying so hard to change ...... I know my loud rude mumbling at Wal-Mart has probably ruined some persons day and some I'm sure just dig in and think I can up you one on the bitch scale lady ....

But at the end of the day I alone am responsible for my quality of life .... There is no one to blame only me if I'm unhappy and miserable and although other people can bring you down or lift you up its still all down to what you decide to let enter your being .....

That is the lesson I learned today and my number one goal in my journey to changing me to be the person I want to be is to only let in the good and hopefully my positivity will become a shield to let the bad things just bounce off and fall at my feet 


Maa said...

Baby steps, Kath. You will always have good days and bad days but it will be when you recognise that the good outweigh the bad that you will see you are winning. I'm with you all the way and wish you lots of happy satisfying days ahead. Hugs Sue x

Kath said...

Thank You Sue :)

Nancy said...

Kath, I just wanted to say "thank you" for being a blog friend who visits and leaves kind comments. I'm just getting to know you, and it looks from your posts like you're going through some pretty big changes in your life right now. I sincerely pray you will find the answers you seek, and that a year from now you'll look back and see good things that have come out of all this. Hugs, Nancy



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“But is it such a bad thing to live like this for just a little while? Just for a few months of one's life, is it so awful to travel through time with no greater ambition than to find the next lovely meal? Or to learn how to speak a language for no higher purpose than that it pleases your ear to hear it? Or to nap in a garden, in a patch of sunlight, in the middle of the day, right next to your favourite fountain? And then to do it again the next day?”
Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

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